I have seen incredible transformations and breakthroughs in my life.

“I found Ruairi through word-of-mouth and I have been working with him throughout the last year. I have seen incredible transformations and breakthroughs in my life. He has helped me through some very tough times and has always been there with his support - always going above and beyond, always available even outside of sessions if something comes up. He has used different protocols that he works with and therefore works in ways beyond traditional methods of psychotherapy.

We have together uncovered many past issues that have stopped me from evolving and through for example BWRT have worked to release these. Having recently spent 3 weeks with my family, it has become even more apparent to me how much Ruairi has helped me evolve in every way. It has also been very clear to the people close to me. When one person’s energy and reactivity changes, the surroundings naturally do too, so I would 100% say that my work with Ruairi has trickled out and touched many more people also. I give Ruairi my whole-hearted recommendation🙏🏻”

His attention and compassion towards me and my situation at the time was incredible.

“I found Ruairi when I was in quite a dark place in my life. I had just come out of a very unhealthy relationship and I was completely lost. Ruairi’s kind hearth, knowledge and wisdom helped me see the other sign of the coin.

How lucky I was to have come out the other side. He helped me see everything from a completely different perspective which I never thought even existed and I now have him to thank for the love, strength and compassion I feel every day. His attention and compassion towards me and my situation at the time was incredible. He understood everything I was thinking, feeling and going through and empathised with me every time. He helped me realise my self-worth and how I had let it hit rock bottom without realising. He taught me about the power I have in my own life and helped me understand the importance of boundaries.

I had reached a stage where I was so out of tune with my intuition that I had no control over my own life but instead, I let someone else take that reign of control. I remember my first phone call with Ruairi and I was so broken and lost. Through our several conversations Ruairi helped me take the reign of control back on my life, he helped me find the voice of my intuition again and my inner strength.

I would wholeheartedly recommend Ruairi as I am a completely new person because of him. I have a whole new perspective of the world and relationships in particular. I have also found a new power within me which is knowledge. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Ruairi 😊 I will be forever grateful for the wisdom, kindness and knowledge you taught me.”

I feel free, alive, fulfilled content and truly happy for the first time in my life

I heard about Ruairi and “Happy-Whole” via a recommendation from a previous client of his.

At first, I felt it was a big expense that I wasn’t sure I could justify. It was justified after the first session! Ruairi is a very attentive, respectful, honest, relaxed, calming, experienced, personable man and the sessions I had with him have genuinely changed my life.

I have learned a huge amount of useful information, tools to help address some of my weaknesses but mostly I have finally learned self-love, self-worth and there is no feeling in the world like it. I feel free, alive, fulfilled content and truly happy for the first time in my life. He is flexible, understanding, put me at ease and made me feel as though I was both understood and heard.

As a medical professional, I think people need to realize that if you have a GP for medical ailments/concerns, you should also have a “head doctor”.

I can never thank Ruairi enough. His advice, guidance and support helped me work through some deeply hurtful experiences that I did not think I would overcome.

Ruairi instilled courage, strength and got me to regain control of my own life!

“This time last year I reached out to Ruairi, as I was in an extremely toxic relationship and was frightened on how to get out of that relationship and the aftermath of the break up that would occur.

I was living on eggshells every day in my relationship and dealing with so much anxiety. I had a lot of dark days but the best thing I ever did was to build up the courage and to reach out to Ruairi to get the help I so desperately needed and wanted for years. Ruairi instilled courage, strength and got me to regain control of my own life! My life is so much better now, compared to last year I am so happy. I know my own worth now and know how to deal with relationships going forward.

Thanks to Ruairi, my life is now my life. I will always be so grateful and appreciative to all Ruairi’s evening calls, meetings and emails. Thank you for everything you have done for me!”

I can never thank Ruairi enough. His advice, guidance and support helped me work through some deeply hurtful experiences that I did not think I would overcome.

What Ruairi knows, and what he teaches is above most psychologists and therapists.

“I have experienced quite a few mental health coaches, mostly because of my acting background and therefore need for self-development, but also my search for inner balance. What Ruairi knows, and what he teaches is above most psychologists and therapists. Ruairi combines knowledge from across a dozen different theories and working methods. This fusion therapy gave me hands-on tools to move forward, and lift from what I knew and how my thought pattern is programmed.

He is good at decoding, seeing patterns, and uses this as an outlet, with a practical approach. What I also enjoyed about Ruairi is when the client is more important than the time and money, which is what one feels when the conversation comes before the hour of finishing. I can highly recommend this work and hope you will find your road of comfort with whichever road you choose. All love!”

My outlook on the future has changed drastically and I’m setting plans in motion to live a life that would have only featured in my daydreams in the past

“Working with Ruairí was the best decision I made for myself in 2020. I cannot emphasise the impact the 12 weeks had on my work life, my personal life, my sleep, overall well-being and outlook for the future. I couldn’t put my finger on anything in particular when I signed up but being newly qualified, starting a new job, moving to another county again and then the side effects of the COVID pandemic had me feeling overwhelmed.

From day one I felt a massive sense of relief in taking action to take care of myself and get my mojo back. Ruairí was also incredibly professional in every aspect of the course and I always felt at ease. From giving me tools to manage stress better to improving my sleep, improving my performance at work, unravelling limits I had placed on myself and helping me gain so much more confidence and trust in myself this course has been absolutely invaluable to me. My outlook on the future has changed drastically and I’m setting plans in motion to live a life that would have only featured in my daydreams in the past, and that’s all thanks to Ruairí.”

It’s worth it, he’s worth it.

“Last year, at 50, I understood for the first time that I was raised by a narcissistic mother and had a toxic relationship with her. The relationship that generated a lot of guilt and mostly didn’t allow me to live fully. I got an excellent recommendation from a good friend who worked with Ruairi before. A 12-week program of zoom meetings and working on materials he sent me in between. With Ruairi you actually make progress and it lasts. He gave me tools and I implemented them. Don’t get me wrong, it’s no magic, you need to work, to want to change and he is there to explain and mostly support.

Such great support and understanding, and I finally don’t feel guilty. I acknowledge my feelings and start living. He is also a great listener, and I am a big talker! I can go on and on but really you just got to be there. It’s worth it, he’s worth it.”